Sexual
Assault / Abuse Recovery Resources
Sexual assault refers to nonconsensual sexual contact of which both
men and women may be victims. This includes all forms of rape, attempted
rape, and nonconsensual sexual physical contact.
Emotional Response to Sexual Assault
Persons who have been sexually assaulted typically experience
symptoms of emotional trauma. Each person’s response to sexual
assault will differ depending on individual circumstances, prior history
of sexual assault or other types of trauma, and her typical style
of coping. The following emotional consequences of sexual assault
are common, and are expected reactions to a traumatic event:
- Shock or Numbness
- Fear and Anxiety
- Reliving the Memory of What Happened
- Minimizing or Not Believing What Happened
- Self-blame and Guilt
- Shame
- Depression
- Loss of Trust and Relationship Difficulties
- Anger
- A Sense of Loss of Control
- Academic Difficulty and Disorganization
- Physical Reactions
If you have been sexually assaulted, it is important to get yourself
to a safe place. Remember, you are not to blame. Consider telling
someone you trust who can give you comfort and emotional support,
and try not to isolate yourself. Seek medical attention to address
the possibility of injury, pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease.
Although it may go against your instincts, it is best to initially
not shower, or discard clothes you were wearing. This limits your
ability to take legal action if you decide to do so. The Counseling
Center can help give you confidential guidance and support. Your
appointments are confidential, and you are not required to report
the assault as a result of seeking counseling. Your counselor will
help you to talk about and manage your feelings. The counselor is
also available to help you consider your options and decide what
will be most conducive to your healing in your individual situation.
The Counseling Center is also available to help if your assault occurred
in the past. It is not too late to seek help for a sexual assault,
even if it happened a long time ago. Contact the Counseling
Center at 515-2423 or After Hours call 515-3333 and ask to speak
to the
On-Call Counselor come by the center to set up an initial appointment.
Also contact an Advocate at NC State's Molly Hays Glander Sexual
Assault Line at 618-RAPE(7273)
Other Useful Links:
NC Coalition Against Sexual Assault
Interact of Wake County
Becoming
Whole Again: Healing from Sexual Assault (U Texas at Austin)
For
Men Only: Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (U Texas at Austin)
Date / Acquaintance
Rape (U Cincinnati)
Men Can Stop Rape
If Someone You
Know is Raped (Michigan State U)
Recovery from Traumatic Events
An experience is considered traumatic when it is too difficult to
emotionally process and absorb all at once. The sudden and overwhelming
attacks on our country have affected us all and will continue to
as we continue to understand and absorb the losses.
At the North Carolina State University Counseling Center we want
you to know that is common for people who have experienced traumatic
situations to have very strong emotional reactions. Understanding normal responses
to these abnormal events can aid you in coping effectively with your
feelings, thoughts, and behaviors, and help you process and integrate
this experience in the healthiest way possible.
Other Useful Links:
Surviving the Effects of Trauma (U Florida)
Road to Resilience (American Psychological Association)
Helping
a Significant Other who has Experienced a Trauma (U Wisconsin)
Managing your Stress in the Aftermath of Trauma (APA)
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